Get Yourself In A Good Mood Before Approaching

Approaching a stranger, especially a girl, on the street can be a very anxiety inducing experience.

This is why the three second rule exists. If you wait for too much time, you will simply give yourself tens of reasons not to do so and every single one of those reasons will make sense.

However, there is another trick you can use to get in a mood for approaching girls you don’t know. This is to get in a good mood. It comes with two different advantages.

If you are in a good mood, you’ll transmit this to her too.

It is a bit hard to get her number if you go in a very serious mood or if everything you do and say expresses anxiety.

On the other hand, if you are happy, you’ll smile in a natural manner and you’ll make her smile too. Energy is transmitted with ease and if you want her to be happy, you want to be happy.

The second advantage is that you won’t have your mind sabotaging you.

You know how hard is to do something when you are feeling down. No matter if it is as simple as cleaning your place, doing work or even brushing your teeth or waking up in the morning, a bad mood leads to procrastination.

While you can approach while in a bad mood, it is like fighting an uphill battle. It is ten times harder and I rarely succeed when I do this.

Or to put it simply, your mood will be directly proportionate to your desire to do this and to your success rate.

Below are seven strategies I use to get in a good mood before going out to meet new, beautiful girls.

Strategy #1 – Exercise. Your mood is determined by a combination of chemicals created in your body. For example, serotonin, the happiness hormone improves your mood. Dopamine makes you more alert and a bit aggressive. Oxytocin is the love hormone and when you have it in a high concentration in your body, you’ll feel loving and affectionate towards other people.

When you exercise, you will automatically increase the right substances in your body. It also relieves you of your anxiety, quiets down your internal talk and gives you a clearer sense of focus and energy. In other words, it creates an “super-you”.

What kind of exercising should you do? Well, any type that gets your heart-rate up. Running, weight training, body-weight training, aerobics, etc. As long as you can get to +100 beats per minute, you’re going to feel better.

A 10 – 15 minute exercise session before going out (followed, of course, by a shower). will do wonders for your mood and this may be the best single advice you can get from this entire book.

Strategy #2 – Call a friend. I’m sure you know a friend that can make you laugh or put you in a good mood. The kind of person that after each interaction leaves you with a huge grin on your face.

A five minute phone call can do wonders and as I’ve mentioned earlier, your new sense of energy and happiness will transmit to her.

Strategy #3 – Take a nap. There are few things in this life that a nap can’t solve. If you are angry or anxious or simply you don’t feel like doing this, take a 30 minute nap then a hot shower and you’ll feel like new.

There isn’t more to say about this – it is simply the fact that most emotions can be flushed away through sleeping.

Strategy #4 – Watch motivational videos. I like to keep on my phone a large library of motivational audios and videos, most of them ripped from YouTube.com. Every single time I feel down, I listen to something to pump me up. It is not as effective as the above strategies but it is a fast and efficient short term fix.

Strategy #5 – Pump up the music. Music is very effective in influencing your mood, both in a positive and negative manner. So put up some motivational, inspiring music (like Eminem) and go out there. It will also block your internal chatter.

Strategy #6 – Spend time with a female friend. Female energy and male energy is very different. When you spend time with a girl, it “rubs” on you. You become more comfortable. It becomes more natural. So having a coffee with a female friend before going out in the field makes it more natural to approach other girls.

Strategy #7 – Eliminate the end goal.

This is maybe the most important strategy and I’ll get into details about it.

You see, in life, when you pursue success, you will usually not get it. The more you want it, the more elusive it is. Success usually appears as a side-effect of other things, as a consequence, not as the cause itself.

The same applies when you go on the street to meet new girls. If you go out with the goal to get five phone numbers, you will most likely fail. You’ll be so anxious about the goal that you’ll most likely screw it up.

And then comes the law of averages.

No matter how good you are (or how bad), you’ll eventually get a number. It just depends on how many girls you approach. Some people get 3 out of 5 numbers. Others 1 out of 100. But eventually you’ll always get a number. You can always trust the law of averages.

So instead of going out with the purpose of getting five numbers, go out with the purpose of approaching 25 or 50 girls. When you’ll get a number, you’ll know the average.

If you get a number in ten, then you’ll know that if you approach 100 girls this week, you’re going to get ten phone numbers. As you get better, this average will improve.

When you simply go out and you don’t care about the result, only about the process, only about how many girls you approach, it actually becomes very, very easy.

If someone rejected you, just move to the next one and the next one. Statistics don’t lie and you’ll get that number sooner or later, as long as you keep going.

When I’ve first started, my success rate was about 1 in 40. I knew that if I try 40 times, I’ll get at least one number. Afterwards, it became 1 in 30, 1 in 25 and so on. Right now, I get a phone

number for each 4 girls I approach and if I want to get 10 phone numbers in a day, I simply approach 40 girls.

So keep this in mind – you may suck at it when you first get started, but eventually, you’ll succeed. Just keep going. Do it enough and it impossible not to reach your goal.

Pre-selection

As humans, we want what other people want too.

It doesn’t really matter if that thing is valuable. The simply thing that others want it makes it valuable. It is one of the main principles in marketing and sales.

And no matter what are your qualities or flaws, the simply fact that another woman wants you makes you more attractive to the “marketplace”.

As you may already know, married men are far more interesting than those who are not married even if they are virtually the same person.

This is the social theory of preselection. If you can show that another woman already chose you, you automatically become better for every other woman that is or may find an interest in you.

For most guys, this would raise an ethical problem. If you are more attractive when you already have a girlfriend, then this means you have to cheat her in order to get someone else.

On some level, this is a true affirmations. However, pre-selection can be conveyed in many ways and in this part of the eBook, we are going to cover these.

Anything from having your phone call, having photos with other beautiful women on Facebook (or on your phone) or lipstick marks on your white shirt will do the trick. Some can even be pre-fabricated, actually, all of them.

You can simply show that you are pre-selected, even if you are not. It is a bit manipulative but it won’t harm anyone and it is very effective.

In order for you to better understand this, let me give you a brief lesson in evolutionary psychology.

You see, attraction exists to serve only one purpose – replication.

This is built in in every living being. When you are attracted to someone, you want that person to be the mother or father of your children. A woman may not want kids, may just want sex, but on a basic, elemental level, her drive is fueled by this – her desire to have children with someone with good genes that can take care of her and her children.

Of course, in the 21st century this is not true. Most women do not want children up to a certain age and sex is a vehicle for pleasure, not for procreation.

This is the rational part.

The emotional, instinctive part is when a woman has a gut feeling that communicates “he’s good genetic material and he would make a good father”. When another woman does this, by choosing, it is like she is advertising this thing to the rest of the world.

It is like she is a walking advertising for your qualities and for the fact that you are good enough for her to have sex with you. It sounds strange but it is what it is and we are not here to judge. We are here to learn how to seduce.

Pre-selection works best when it is genuine.

When you have ten women in your life that are willing to sleep with you, you’ll be confident, you’ll feel good in your own skin and you’ll subconsciously transmit this to any other woman. It will be like a piece of clothing that makes you feel amazingly good.

But what do you do when you have none?

You build the pre-selection tricks.

You build the appearance that you are desired, that you are a hot commodity so you can take advantage of this instinctive desire to have what other people already want.

A pre-selection trick, put simply is something that you can show that implies other women like you or that you are in a sexual relationship with another woman.

Or you can simply do it on a passive level.

For a woman, it is not so much about the fact that you are wealthy as your ability to create wealth. It is an indicator that you are smart enough to make things happen.

Therefore, nice clothes, a nice watch, nice shoes are indicators that you are smart enough to create, that you are not average. However, if these are outside of your reach for whatever reason, stick to subtle but efficient pre-selection indicators.

Pre-selection works even on mediums like Facebook.

There is a reason why guys post photos showing them having fun and surrounded by other women. That woman may be his sister or cousin but it doesn’t really matter. Anyone who is surrounded with members of the opposite sex becomes attractive automatically.

That’s being said, here are my favorite ten tricks to create the perception of pre-selection.

Trick #1 – Lipstick stains.

This is very effective even if too many people are doing it right now. If you are wearing a white shirt or a male scarf, some lipstick on it will show her that you’ve been “naughty” before.

It is important though to make this look authentic. If you are just applying lipstick, like it is a marker, it will both ruin your shirt and it will look false from a mile away.

Best way is to simply ask your girl to do this for you.

She’ll find it funny and go with it. I’m NOT suggesting that you apply lipstick on yourself and then do it. I understand that you want to get a date today but that would be going way too far.

When it comes to a scarf though, it is far easier. Just put some lipstick in a spot and leave it there. When you’ll go out in the field, to approach, hide that part partially as you are trying to hide this, as this is something you don’t want her to see. She’ll notice it anyway and this will give you some authenticity.

Trick #2 – Photos on your phone.

This one can be either very simple or very hard, depending on the kind of life you lead. If you already have an interesting lifestyle, save some photos on your phone so she can see them.

This is a very useful trick, taught virtually in all schools of seductions.

Show photos where you are the leader of others and where you are surrounded by beautiful women.

You can introduce the photo in a conversation very easily. Since you are talking about your experiences and her, if you can tell a story and show some photos (that will put you into a great light), half of the job is done.

Now if you don’t have such photos, then create them. Take some photos in interesting situations, even if you are alone. The idea is to show her that you have an exciting life since girls dig exciting men.

Best photos are the ones in which you are outdoor and you are doing something interesting, even showing her your adventurous side.

Trick #3 – Faint scent of women cologne.

Before you go to the store to buy women cologne, stop. The idea here is to make it look like you’ve borrowed from her scent from hugging and such and not to put women cologne on you.

There is a major difference between an accidental transfer (as when you hug somebody) and when you apply it directly to your skin.

So here’s my advice. First, wear a layer of your own cologne. Second, apply very little and only in the key areas (as the neck and clothes, preferably clothes) some women cologne. It doesn’t matter which one as long as it smells nice.

You want the first cologne perceived to be yours and then a slight scent of something else. And I can’t repeat this enough, don’t over-do-it. There is nothing interesting about a men wearing female cologne on purpose.

Trick #4 – Lifestyle proofs.

Let me explain what this mean. No matter what you do or you don’t do, a woman wants someone who is exciting, interesting and lives a cool life. You may or you may not be that person but that’s beside the point.

What you can do is fake the signals for such a thing. For example, you may wear a “club-entry” bracelet, the kinds you get when you go to a club. Or a stamp on your hand showing her that you’ve been to some cool club last night.

Or you can accidentally drop two used tickets for a movie which signals her that you’ve at least had company.

I know that it sounds corny and fake. It is. But it is also very effective. You can’t brag “I’ve been to club X” but you can let her see this by noticing some proof of you being there. It is the same thing with Facebook check-ins.

Half of them are fake and are made only for the purpose of bragging that that individual has a social life.

While FB won’t help you here, indicators of where you’ve been or what you’ve done will.

Trick #5 – Have your phone call. A lot.

This is something known by almost all people. When your phone rings a lot, you are a busy and sought after person (unless you work in customer support, then it is your job).

So it may help that during a date to have your phone vibrate insistently. Of course, you should never answer as this signifies bad manners but at least she will know that you are an important person.

How can you do this? There are apps and services to call you at a specified hour. Or you can simply ask a friend to do this for you as a favor.

Preselection works best when it isn’t forced. All these tricks can backfire against you very, very fast. Do them too much and they’ll be visible from a mile and too little that she won’t even notice.

Therefore, experiment. See what works for you. See what gets you results. You can combine all of them or use just one or two. It is your call in the end. But don’t overdo it. And remember, your attitude must back up the appearances. If you are acting strange and you are lacking confidence, then all the tricks in the world may not be enough.

The Three Seconds Rule

You know what are the hardest five meters to walk in the life of a man?

When he sees a beautiful woman, a stranger, he wants to go to her and he has to walk those five meters and say hello to her.

It feels impossible.

It feels like your body will turn to jelly. And this is why most men don’t even do it. They see her, they like her but they hesitate so much that they’ll never even say hello.

And this is bad. Why? Think what can happen.

You go to her and you say hello. Best case scenario, you get to a date and to sex. Worst case scenario, she won’t even say hello back. But that’s it. Nothing bad can happen. Nobody will come to kick your ass.

Nobody will humiliate you.

If something bad actually happens, as her boyfriend coming to her, you can simply say that you’ve thought that it is someone you thought you knew and you apologize. But I guarantee, 99 out of 100 cases, she’ll simply say hello back to you and you can at least carry some small talk.

I’ve found myself confronted with this issue many, many times.

I saw girls, I knew that I was attracted to them yet I waited so much to go to them that eventually, I gave up completely. So that’s when I’ve discovered and implemented the three second rule.

What is this rule you may ask?

It is simple.

From the moment you see a beautiful woman to the moment you approach her, there should never pass more than three seconds. If more than three seconds will pass, you will get anxious, hesitate and the chances to do this will drop dramatically, almost to zero.

In other words, you will either do it in those three seconds or there is a strong chance that you won’t do it at all.

It takes the mind between 3 and 5 seconds to analyze and understand the social pressure to go to a beautiful woman and you need act before that.

Or to put it simply, consider that after three seconds, your inner talk acts like a barrier to approaching her. Like a body-guard that will do everything in its power to keep you away. That bodyguard is asleep only in those three seconds. Take advantage of that time.

Does that mean that you can’t approach her after these three seconds?

You can, but it is a lot harder. You’ll start to sweat and your breathing will become more intense. You’ll start to create scenarios in your mind – movies about all the reasons why she would reject you.

This rule served me well up until this point. Let me give you a story from my own life to exemplify.

I was with a couple of friends in a bar. It was an Monday night so the place was almost empty. I think there were 20 people in the entire place, including the bartenders.

Then I saw this girl. She was blonde, tall and very cute. She was sitting with a female friend at a table. I knew that I was interested in meeting her right then, on the spot.

Yet, I look towards her. She looked back and smiled. Yet, I’ve hesitated. Ten seconds passed. Twenty. One minute. Three. Five. With each passing second, I’ve found it harder and harder to simply go to her and say hello. My mind was filling with thoughts why she would reject me or slap me or that other bad things will happen.

She smiled to me. She gave me her permission. Yet, there I was sitting and doing nothing. Fortunately, there is a happy ending to the story, as finally, when she came to the bar to order something I finally taught to her and we’ve met subsequently.

But this was luck on my side.

It was her part, coming to the bar. If she would have not done that, maybe I would have missed the opportunity to get to know this wonderful girl forever.

On the other hand, let me tell you what is generally happening when I follow the three second rule. I see a girl. I know that if I don’t act in the first three seconds, I’m going to lose her forever.

So I simply go and say hi.

Sometimes she rejects me. She tells me that she’s not interested and even some embarrassing events happened.

But most of the time, she will smile and say hello back.

I’m not going with a pre-made story or with some lame excuse. I’m simply saying hi and girls like this approach. It shows that you are comfortable enough to be yourself and that you are not trying to compensate for anything (we’ll cover DHV – demonstrating higher value) a bit later.

Sometimes it ends up with a date. Other times it is a short conversation and I never see her again. Other times it ends with great sex.

But nothing bad happened up to this moment for simply saying “hello” to a girl and I’ve done it at least 250 times.

But you need to do it in the first three seconds. Period. It is the golden rule. And if you will never use anything again, no technique, no mindset, nothing but this rule, you’ll still have more dates and sexual partners than you’ll ever have time for.

Why is that? What is the psychology behind this rule?

It is simple. Your brain is designed to help you survive. When we were living in tribes, going to a new woman and saying “hello” may have meant death. Her partner may have killed you. That’s how our brain is wired. So your brain automatically protects you by creating anxiety so you don’t do it.

But we are not in tribal times anymore. No one will kill you for talking with a woman. I’m not saying that you should approach girls that are with partners but single girls or girls that go out single are safe.

The worst thing that can happen is her saying no through one way or another. That’s it. No one will know.

You’ve got nothing to lose.

This is what in business is called a very small downside.

But what about the upside? Well – you can get her phone number. A date. A night with her. A relationship. The upside is huge. It is a great scenario if you think about it.

Q & A (Questions & Answers)

Q: What do you do if you see her but you can’t approach in three seconds, due to other circumstances? (her being with friends / you being with someone else, etc).

A: The best thing you can do is to take her out of your mind. Don’t focus on it. Do your thing. Do something else. When the opportunity strikes, just go to her.

But don’t obsess for 10 – 20 minutes approaching her as you’ll find five different ways to sabotage yourself.

Q: I’ve hesitated approaching her initially and now, I’m stuck. What do I do?

A: Find another girl and follow the three second rule with her. Success leads to more success. If you’ve approached another girl, then you’ll get more confidence and it will become easier to go to your initial target, even if you’ve hesitated at first.

But from my own experience – if you’ve missed the three seconds at the initial contact, then forget about her for a few minutes, do another approach and then return to your target.

It is like restarting your computer when it starts to work slowly. It won’t help you if you give it more to do. It will work slower and slower. Instead, restart so you can get a clean state.

Q: What should I say to her?

A: There are many school of thoughts about how you can open.

Some people say that a circumstantial opener is best. This may be something like “Hey, this bar is empty tonight, it is always like this?”.

To be honest, while you may get an answer, unless you are a very good actor and you are good looking, this rarely works. It is very clear that you are just trying to get her to talk to you and this puts her on a superior position.

I simply prefer to go to her, say hi and introduce myself. It is the simplest solution and generally the most effective. She’ll may say something like “what do you want?”. Simply say that you’ve saw her and you want to get to meet her. It is as simple as that.

Don’t invent a story. It just makes you look desperate.

In the end, it all comes down to what works best for you. Some people are funny and can open with a joke. It is always a good people to make people laugh. Others can simply go and say hi. Others ask for a opinion.

Test different approaches and see what works for you but start with the simplest method – “hello”.

Q: What if she is with someone else?

A: Well, generally, unless you approach her on the street, she will be with someone else. Group dynamics are rather complicated so I’ll give you two simple rules.

The first one – if she is in a group, go and befriend the group, not her. It is strange for a stranger to come and talk to only one person plus you’ll antagonize everyone. So talk to the entire group and later focus on the particular person.

Second – if the group is not interested, don’t insist. You’ll just be that guy that ruins their day and it is never a good idea. You can do this at some point, you can get past this barrier but it takes a lot of experience and practice.

Q: What do I do if she simply ignores me?

A: You move on. She’s not interested. Don’t insist. There are more than enough girls out there and if she decided from the first three seconds she is not interested, you should focus on overturning this at a later date.

However, there is a difference between ignoring you and not hearing you.

Often, in night clubs it is so loud that you may say something and she may not even notice. That’s why when you say something you should touch her lightly, so she acknowledges your presence. You can touch her on the arm, which comes as non-threatening and smile in the same time.

Q: If I’m in a group, should I go alone or take someone with me?

A: Always approach alone.

It is intimidating as it is to be approached by a stranger. It is harder when you do it with someone else. If you want to use a wingman (someone who helps you in a seduction scenario), then the other person should focus on the group / female partner / male partner) and you should deal only with the target.

However, this is not a science, it is an art. I’ve approached with a friend on the street and it worked. It all comes down to how much each person will talk.

Ideally two people will talk and the third will say something from time to time, but not all three people at the same time.

How Attraction Works

What does a woman want?

Well, most people would say “nobody knows”. Even the women around you may say the same thing

But this is not true.

And to help you understand, let’s make a computer analogy.

There is Android and IOS. These are two operating systems for mobile phones. Chances are that you have one of them. For example, if you have a Samsung phone, you have Android. If you have an iPhone, you have IOS.

Both serve the same purpose – to make calls, play music, videos, surf the Internet, etc.

However, even if they do exactly the same, they are different.

You can’t install IOS programs on Android and you can’t do the opposite. They share the same purpose but have a different architecture.

The same applies to men and women.

We are essentially built the same but in the same time, very, very different. Apart from the anatomical differences which you are very aware of, there are also psychological differences.

That’s why it is being said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

That’s why us, as man, find it so difficult to understand woman.

It is like they speak another language. A language of emotions, of small details while we are more factual. Woman want to express themselves, we want to get it done.

Let me give you an example, as it usually happens in a relationship.

Your girlfriend is upset. She says that she’s OK but you know that this is not true.

You insist. She tells you that she’s fine. Then you leave her alone and she gets even more upset because you’ve left her alone.

You try again to discover – frustrated of what is happening. You find out, it is a small problem at work. You suggest some plans, some course of action but she is not interested. She is interested only in talking.

After two hours of talking, even if the problems is still there, she is happy. She is acting like nothing ever happened. She never wanted help. She just wanted to express her feelings.

For us, this may seem very irrational.

  • She wants help?
  • She doesn’t want help?
  • She wants time alone?
  • She doesn’t?
  • Does she even know?

But this is because we judge this from our point of view and not from hers.

We see things in a different manner compared to the opposite sex. It is not like you are right and she is wrong or the other way.

This is not the goal.

In life it is not about being right, it is about getting results.

Instead, the goal is to find a common ground, one in which you can both work, so you can understand her behavior and that she can understand yours.

What does this have to do with attraction?

Well, it is not about the things that you think it creates attraction, it is about what it makes her feel attracted.

Let’s take bad-boys. Why are girls so attracted to bad guys?

Well, the answer is simple. It is in their traits and what they express through that.

They are interesting. Like a game. Hard to decypher. They are exciting. Always giving her something new. Giving her emotions and a woman (and a man too) is wired to want to feel. It is what makes us human.

They are unpredictable. You don’t know what to expect.

A nice guys get her emotions to 5 maybe. A bad boy gets them to 50.

And emotions are the fuel to attraction. Emotions are the wood required to create the fire. Without emotions, there is no attraction. You can’t convince someone to be rationally attracted to you.

You can only make her feel attracted by generating the right emotions. Emotions are the tool of the game.

And how do you do this?

It is what I like to call the roller coaster effect.

Have you’ve ever been on a roller-coaster? It is purely insane. It is a combination of adrenaline, fear, enjoyment, excitement and ten more other things. Now you are fearful, the next moment you are feeling ecstatic.

The same thing works in generating attraction.

You need to take her through an “emotional rollercoaster”.

Make her feel good then leave. Make her fear losing you (not in other way, there is good fear and bad fear). Give her the time of her life then let her want you back. When she gets closer to you, push her away a bit and in the same time, get closer to her. Give her a true rollercoaster and she’ll be MAD about you.

This concept is rather hard to understand for most guys. They don’t see the point in everything. They don’t see why they have to bother with this.

Well my friend, I don’t know either but it is what it is.

This is the game and these are the rules. You can appeal to the rational mind in many circumstances – business, social, life, education but when it comes to get a girl naked and willing, it is not that effective. Actually, some of the most successful guys when it comes to getting laid are not even that smart.

Some are plain stupid.

Yet, because they don’t try to act on a rational level but instead on a primal, instinctual one, they get laid. A lot. I know that it is sad. I know that it is unfair.

But this is reality and you can either play by its rules or go become a monk.

So here’s the lesson you need to learn here – if you want to be successful with the opposite sex, discard everything you think you know about it.

It is a completely different way of seeing the world and what makes sense to you may not make sense to hear and the other way around.

The faster you understand the rules and the faster you can see things through her own eyes, the faster you’ll make her fall for you.

A Crash, No B.S. Course In Internet Marketing

My dear friend and reader, if you are like me, when you have first entered the world of IM, you’ve thought that everything is going to be easy. You have probably thought that it’s as easy as creating a website then you’ll have hundreds of people rushing to buy your product.

I don’t blame you, especially since it is not your fault. It is not like your “IM Guru” AKA the person from which you’ve learned told you the entire truth. After all, they make sales by playing on your need to think that it is easy to make money online and they are not willing to ruin their sales appeal.

However, let’s take one step back here. I’m not saying that you can’t make money online. You can. I’ve seen 14 years old earning a few hundred dollars each week from their laptop and I’ve seen veterans making more than one million per year. You can do it but it’s not as easy as other people made you think.

Actually, it’s far harder. And now that you know that, you have two options. You can keep living in a dreamworld where you can make money online with no skill, effort or strategy and hate me for trying to tell you the truth (as most people will do, they would rather shut down their eyes than learn how things works) or you can accept the fact that you’ve been feeded a lot of things that do not necessarily work and learn how to do it the right way.

The choice is yours. If you’re going to read past this line in this article, this means that you’re interested in results, not in being right and in this case, I promise you that you’re going to find some very valuable, straight to the point resources to help you here – even if they are very different from what you’ve seen before.

So first of all, let’s determine how things DO NOT work online.

You can’t …

  • Buy cheap traffic online as it will not convert.
  • Create a poor sales letter and still have people buying because there are customers for everyone (actually, there are more products and services than there should be for a very limited marketplace, so everyone fights for about the same people).
  • Copy the competition and achieve about the same results (this includes PPC ads too. However, you can copy the principle that made them successful but that is another story).
  • Work one hour, two hours, three hours a day and achieve online success (IM is a full time job, 50 hours a week).
  • Get JVs with the big guys just because someone told that you can. Big guys JVs only with other big guys and will not burn their list to promote a start-up unless it’s one of a kind.

However, you can …

  • Launch a small product on WarriorForum.com and earn a decent income (even if not for a long time).
  • Develop in about 3 months a product on ClickBank.com that will bring you at least $1000/month.
  • Learn the strategies and mindset to earn more than $100.000/year in less than 3 years.
  • Develop the skills to earn more than $1.000.000/year in less than five years.
  • Launch a product, write sales copy even if you are not a writer and you don’t consider yourself good in writing.
  • Succeed in IM no matter if you are young or old, rich or poor, motivated or unmotivated as long as you’re willing to put in the work required.

Internet marketing to some degree is a science. This means that if you do x, you’ll most probably get y. It’s not the most accurate science but there are some proven principles that you can replicate to achieve about the same results.

Here are a few of these principles:

  • Human nature will never change. People will always want to look better, thinner, younger, richer, to be more respected and so on.
  • A good sales letter is just a greased slide to have your prospect buy and it’s not meant to be creative or cute or interesting. It must only sell.
  • You’ll earn 80% of all your income in the last 20% of your time frame. This means that if you work for one year, you’ll probably make close to nothing for the first 9 months and then achieve amazing results in the next 3 months.
  • It requires 10.000 hours of practice to achieve the master level in anything. This means that if you want to be like Frank Kern, you need to invest a minimum of 10.000 hours in studying and applying Internet Marketing.
  • People will not come to you just because you have something to sell. People do not care that you need the money fast or you’ve put a lot of effort into it. They care only if you can help them solve a particular problem. We are all selfish and IMers understand this best.

When it comes to launching a business in the IM niche, you have to focus on three particular things.

These are:

  1. a) Your product.
  2. b) Your marketplace.
  3. c) Your marketing.

You need a unique product that will deliver a reasonable value to your prospect. In order to get paid you need to provide value to the other side. It’s something for something. In order to have interest for your product, you need a marketplace. You need people with a certain problem that are willing to pay to solve it. You need a reasonable amount of them.

It will be easy to find people who want to lose weight but it will be a lot harder to find people interested in buying a book about breathing or some antique form of meditation.

Finally, you need to appeal to this marketplace through your marketing. You need to communicate with them in a concise manner and show them that your solution is what they need to fix their problems. You need to differentiate yourself from everyone else out there and you need to eliminate their skepticism that your solution will not work (which is the status quo, people think by default that what you have doesn’t work and you have to prove them otherwise).

Kind of a different vision over IM compared to the popular gurus out there? Don’t worry about it, you’ll get it and love it when you’ll see how good it works.

Sexual Awareness Of The Unplugged ALPHAS

Statistically a 99-1 ratio is a common system behavior in dating niche. In other words only 1% of men achieve outstanding results with the opposite sex while 99% experience mediocrity.

If you have to type on google “how to attract women”, in all likelihood you are still Beta/Omega, you are not satisfied with your dating life and you want to capitilize on GAME  to turn everything around.

This happens mostly because you have swallowed the Blue-Pill of the univeral Beta behavior, provided by your mother who doens’t understand Alphaness.

If you crave to join men who have game. If you really want to be a part of the 1% and become a King in the sexual marketplace you better get unplugged from the conventional matrix and of course read the entire article (hehe).

To begin with let me tell you that women’s sexual communication takes place covertly, instead we men function and communicate on a more direct and overt manner.

That’s why saying to a woman “You are very sexy, I want to bang you” doesn’ t work.

But telling her “Not only you have beautiful eyes, but I am almost sure that you have a great personality as well…imagine how much love you deserve tonight….”  tend to work a lot better.

The first one is rational and pragmatic, the second full of drama…both focus on the same outcome but with a different approach.

This is what most men will never learn.

I admit that the answer to abundant sex and relationship with high quality women is simple, linear and straightforward.

Taking into consideration the social advancement, the solipsistic nature of women and their opportunistic love, he who has the highest SMV (sexual market value) within the tribe, will attract the most desirable woman.

Attraction therefore isn’t a choice based on virtues, it is a series of chemical reactions triggered by ALPHANESS which leads to a rather predictable behavior.

Memorizing lines wont save you anymore, it is not a key factor. The thing that will give you a competitive advantage is social intelligence, behavioral adaptation and a swaggerish aura for the purpose of maximizing the preferable outcome.

Now before you adapt you need a feedback from reality.

You must separate women in three different age segments. Demographics are important.

Women (like men) evolve while they grow and become mature. That means their instinctive sexual preferences change.

Let me explain.

  • Attractiveness (especially facial) is everything for women of age 19-24 while they are at the peak of their SMV due to evident biological appearance of course. (System equilibrium).
  • For middle age women who are starting to gradually lose their SMV, status and money start to compensate for men’s attractiveness. (System reformation/change)
  • For older women who partially or completely lost their SMV, status and money are traits of an utmost importance and compensate completely over looks. (Again system balance)

The key to this revelation is adaptability.

Different things work for different demographics. By applying a Bad-Boy behavior the odds to attract the first segment (age 19-24) are very much in your favor but if you want to attract an older woman you implement a completely different set of behaviors.

For example, older women pay more attention to your covertly behavioral details (e.g leaning forward, watching straight into her eyes, telling her without a trembling voice that you want her bad).

Final notice: If you don’t have an excellent bone structured face, build a great body since you cannot control your facial attractiveness. Change the things that are under your control.

Change to compensate.

Change to increase your Sexual Market Value.

You got it.

Good luck,

Zourkas

Egoism, Capitalism, Logic

Ayn Rand was a brilliant thinker, Atlas Shrugged an addictive masterpiece. It’s a provocative but at the same time an intriguing book. The smart will love it, the foolish will contempt it.

While I was reading her book I was able to dive into this new matrix of high intelligence. It was a state of the new consciousness. By analyzing in depth Francisco d’anconia’s money speech and every speech of this nature was like a heroine that stimulated my brain. I was able to see the world in a different viewpoint, in a way of a rational selfish monopolist who’ve made it to the top with nothing else but competence.

Now without further ado let’s dive into the interesting stuff.

There is nothing more important in life except how well you do your work. The code of competence is the only system of morality that’s on a gold standard. This was a brilliant statement articulated by a character of higher intelligence in Rand’s book.

You become the best, an overachiever, an outlier and the world is simply yours.

It is the passage to reach extraordinary heights as an individual “investor” in a selfish world where solid, materialistic assets are of an utmost importance.

The moment you understand the fact that competence that produces results and achievement is what defines you as a human being, you can instantly snap out of your brainwashed mind and take significant steps towards improving the quality of your life.

Results must be the main objective that will navigate you through life from the day you set free to the day you lay on your deathbed. The only measurement of human value is competence.

Everything you are will be derived from this. It is your PMV (personal market value).

So there is no room for mediocrity since the “marketplace” called life rewards excellence.

Ayn Rand is right when she emphasis that rationality and reasoning, “…why?” and “…for what?” is the fundamental basis of your choices. Objectivism then as a matter of fact becomes the compass, the system and the philosophy based on which you will move your pawns on the board as an individualist in order to climb to the top.

Even though Rand touches the extremes, viewing the world as an absolute concept ruled by cause and effect with only good and bad guys, competent and incompetent people, progress and stagnation…applying her philosophical system will make you a superhero compared to average civilian…a superhero with purpose who aims to reach the Olympus to take a sip of the “Ambrosia”, the Gods nectar.

And I come to my final conclusion that overachievers cannot exist without traits like greed, ambition and competence.

Best of luck,
Zourkas