There are many pick-up coaches that say that no matter how you look, you can get the girl. This is hypocrisy since they don’t follow the same rule and they are either very good looking or very well dressed.
To put it simply, yes, it matters, but not as much as you think it does. In other words, you need to be handsome enough for her to be proud to go out with you but you don’t need to look like a movie star to get in bed with her.
If you are so ugly that she’ll be embarrassed with you, then it doesn’t matter how good you are at the game. Social pressure and the fact that people talk (and gossip) will act against you. You can still get the girl, even in that case, but it is far harder and to be honest – if you put 10% of the effort to get that good in improving how you look, you’ll make things far easier for you.
I don’t consider myself a good looking person, not at the handsome level anyway. But I know how to care care of myself. I dress nice, I groom and I keep myself clean. I can say that I’m average and yes, there are some girls out there who will go out only with guys who look like models.
These girls are not my target. Some of them are not even pretty, they are plain ugly. They’ve simply decided that looks are the most important thing to look in a man and I’m OK with that.
But in the same time, with my average but groomed and taken care of look I’ve managed to score perfect 10s, the kind of girls you would see on the cover of an adult magazine.
So my friend, even if you are not buffed, tall and handsome, even if you are not turning heads on the street, you can still get the girl. But you need to do your best to take care of you. Smell nice. Shave. Have a nice haircut. If you don’t have money for expensive clothes, then iron your existing ones and keep them clean. Keep your shoes clean.
That will go a long way.